Is there anything more polarizing in this modern world than Social Media, especially Facebook? Most of us use it, most of us don’t like everything about it. Between random people you went to High School with or coworkers, our friends list is an eclectic mixture.
Personally, I have a love-hate relationship with it. I’m a liberal atheist and I feel I’m pretty open about being a liberal atheist. For the most part, I just try to post fun things and keep things light, but every now and then reality will come in and I’ll post about some current event or political item. This brings out all the people who have opposing viewpoints and the shouting matches begin. No one’s opinion is changed, but everyone just walks away mad. It’s an angry circle jerk of opposing views resulting in nothing but awkwardness.
I’ve wanted to close my Facebook account on numerous times, but the site for all it’s problems does have some positives. There are people who I do generally give a shit about on there and it’s a great tool for keeping in touch with people and family. That works especially good for me since most of my family is thousands of miles away. But there are still those trolls and people with extreme opposite viewpoints who will just shout you down.
Now an overly opinionated asshole like me, I can’t just walk away or let it go. For some reason, I have this “Can’t let the terrorists win” attitude when it comes to Facebook. I hate feeling like I was forced out by a small percentage of assholes.
I am on nearly every social media platform. I have a really boring job and I like finding different ways to amuse myself. I use twitter the most, and I think I have a pretty good handle on who I follow and who I don’t on there. Twitter for me is a kind of geeky stream of consciousness. I have a tumblr, and while I still don’t think I fully know how to use the site I have fun with it and mostly post just fun geeky things. For some reason, I can’t keep my damn mouth shut on Facebook. Every now and then I just have to spout up about some random event or thing and my problems start all over again.
I think my biggest problem is that I’ve never gone through and culled my friends list. I’ve unfollowed some people, but I really need to get in there and clear some people out. That is my first step. Secondly I need to find a better outlet for the frustrations of daily life. Instead of posting something controversial on there, I need to channel that into my writing. (If only I had a blog site where I could post stuff?) I also need to stop going down to where the trolls live and poking them with a stick.
Writing on here is a much better focus of my energies than some passive-aggressive post on Facebook. I think we can all agree that those are the worst.